"When a woman submits to a man, it’s the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if He respects nothing else in the world, He must respect the woman in His care. It’s His sworn duty to protect, honor and cherish His submissive. To take care of her and provide a safe haven. Someone who would put His own needs above His woman’s is no man."
— Maya Banks, Sweet Addiction

Monday, October 24, 2016

Daily Task and Rules



I thought that this would be a good post to get me back into writing.  Especially since a lot of the reason I have not been able to blog is because of my daily tasks. 


Why are Rules and Daily Tasks such a vital part of a D/s dynamic?  Well...how the fuck else would the s/type know what is expected of them!  

Just so you understand how I differentiate between tasks and rules:

Tasks: s/type is to complete a task or chore.  Example: Must wear butt plug to bed. 

Rules:  s/type and how they should behave.  Example:  May not talk to any other D/type without owners permission.

First lets talk about Daily Tasks:

I do not believe a D/type should assign so many tasks that the s/type cannot reasonably get them done.  In our D/s dynamic my daily tasks are:
  1. I am to send a selfie every morning to Sir.
  2. I am to make the bed every morning.
  3. I am to make sure laundry is washed and dried daily.
  4. I am to make sure that dinner is cooked. 
  5. I am to have all dishes washed before I go to bed.
These are the ones that are set in stone. Each morning though I ask Sir what else needs to be accomplished for that day.  Sometimes He adds stuff and sometimes He doesn't.

I try to get all of my tasks that He has set done before I work on my business or here on my blog.  If I fail to get a task finished than there is punishment but that is a topic for another day.

Here are some tasks that I find intriguing, but are not apart of my dynamic:
  1. Must inform D/type of all daily plans.
  2. Tell/Text/Email D/type one thing you love about yourself daily.
  3. s/type needs to reach orgasm once a day.
  4. s/type needs to masturbate almost to the point of orgasm then stop.
  5. s/type to sleep with a butt plug in. 

On to rules (which is going to be kinda short):

To be quite honest We really do not have many "rules" in place, even though I wish We did have a few more.  Rules should be set into place so the s/type should know how they are to behave in every setting.  I whole heatedly believe that rules need to be established from day one of the relationship.   

Here are the very few actual rules of ours:

  1. I am not allowed to talk to other D/types unless it pertains to my business or I have permission. 
  2. I am to answer with "Yes Sir" or "No Sir". 
Each dynamic is different, and will have its own set of rules/tasks. 

I want to hear what your tasks/rules are so leave them in the comments!

XOXOXO
Mattie

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