I thought that this would be a good post to get me back into writing. Especially since a lot of the reason I have not been able to blog is because of my daily tasks.
Why are Rules and Daily Tasks such a vital part of a D/s dynamic? Well...how the fuck else would the s/type know what is expected of them!
Just so you understand how I differentiate between tasks and rules:
Tasks: s/type is to complete a task or chore. Example: Must wear butt plug to bed.
Rules: s/type and how they should behave. Example: May not talk to any other D/type without owners permission.
First lets talk about Daily Tasks:
I do not believe a D/type should assign so many tasks that the s/type cannot reasonably get them done. In our D/s dynamic my daily tasks are:
- I am to send a selfie every morning to Sir.
- I am to make the bed every morning.
- I am to make sure laundry is washed and dried daily.
- I am to make sure that dinner is cooked.
- I am to have all dishes washed before I go to bed.
I try to get all of my tasks that He has set done before I work on my business or here on my blog. If I fail to get a task finished than there is punishment but that is a topic for another day.
Here are some tasks that I find intriguing, but are not apart of my dynamic:
- Must inform D/type of all daily plans.
- Tell/Text/Email D/type one thing you love about yourself daily.
- s/type needs to reach orgasm once a day.
- s/type needs to masturbate almost to the point of orgasm then stop.
- s/type to sleep with a butt plug in.
On to rules (which is going to be kinda short):
To be quite honest We really do not have many "rules" in place, even though I wish We did have a few more. Rules should be set into place so the s/type should know how they are to behave in every setting. I whole heatedly believe that rules need to be established from day one of the relationship.
Here are the very few actual rules of ours:
- I am not allowed to talk to other D/types unless it pertains to my business or I have permission.
- I am to answer with "Yes Sir" or "No Sir".
I want to hear what your tasks/rules are so leave them in the comments!
XOXOXO
Mattie

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