Just a FYI this will be a shorter post than most will be. And if you have something judgemental to say about how we are raising our kids keep it to yourself because I don't give a damn what you think.
I got asked a couple of questions the other day about how I handle being a submissive and a mother, and the simple answer is I have no fucking clue how I do it but I somehow make it all work, of course with the help of my Sir (who is the little humans Dad).
Another part of the question was how do I separate lifestyle time with normal time. Well with Sir and I it is 24/7 so the little humans see a lot, such as me saying Yes Sir, kneeling beside His chair when He asks, they also see me doing as I am asked (most of the time without question). They also see me just being a normal wife and mother doing the laundry, cooking, and just making sure the normal everyday things are done. I feel by them seeing what we allow them to see, will help teach them respect. I am trying to keep my kids from growing up to be assholes!
Even though Sir and I sometimes do not agree on certain rules we try to keep each others ideas in mind. When it comes to raising children it takes both parties to contribute.
They will NEVER see me being punished, they will never see me being degraded, they will never see the darker side of our relationship.
All of the X rated stuff goes on behind closed doors or when they are not around. If for some reason He decides He wants to play around or I deserve a punishment, and the little humans are awake, they know not to come in our room if the door is shut. And I also know that I must be super quite...which by the way is like a punishment in itself. If they need us while we are doing our thing they know they must knock and that I will help them with whatever they need or if I am already in lala land <also known as subspace> that Sir steps in and takes care of it.
I want my daughter to grow up a strong, confident, beautiful lady who knows her worth. At the same time I want her to know that when she finds the man she will call her husband that HE is the head of the house. I want her to find a man who will treat her like a goddess and cherish her with everything within him.
For my son, I want him to be an amazing provider, I want him to know that his place is as head of the house. I want him to find a woman who values his hard work, and how he cares and provides for them.
My hope is that by them seeing Our dynamic that it will create in them something wonderful, something that the youth of today has lost, RESPECT, Loyalty, & Dignity. I want them to be a help to society not a burden.
XOXOXO
Mattie
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